Strange as this may sound, a lot of women still aren't sure as to what it is that they really want out of a relationship or for that matter, what it is exactly that they want from their partners.
Obviously we are all diverse in our thinking and our beliefs, and it baffles me somewhat to see the women around me alway searching for that extra something. We all want more from our partners, more manners, more romance, more gifts, more money, more good looks, better bod's and the list goes on and on and on.
How many women out there are truly happy with their lives and their partners? How many of them can say that they would honestly NOT change a single thing in their lives? Not many I can assure you. There is not one single woman out there who can legitimately say with total confidence and honesty that she is truly happy. Sure, she may experience snippets of happiness here and there but overall she lives among us - the majority - who have learnt to just settle and live with what we've got and make the best of it with what little we have to work with.
I think many women go through life just "accepting what life throws at them"...be it relationships, career, family etc. We basically just get on with it and make the best as you say of what little we have to work with.
ReplyDeleteFor some 9 years I was in a loveless relationship, it was a one way street in regards to affection and love....it became a routine, boring & fustrating connection....which led to many arguments, many about that 3 letter word - SEX.....I could go on, but many readers know exactly what I'm talking about.
To answer your question...What do we want especially from a relationship.....well you know it's so simple, costs nothing.....
* Love
* Trust
* Respect
* Compassion
* To be made to feel "Special"
Guys if only they knew, women are actually so easy to please.....it truly costs "nothing" to make us happy.
It's the little things....a text out of the blue to say I love you and thinking of you. Come home one evening and dinner be made with a bottle of wine. A note left in your wallet telling you how special you are.
All these above, cost little or nothing, but mean everything....they show that your partner is thinking of you and what you mean to each other.
I am in a happy space with a guy that does all these little things and I thank my stars for him being in my life.
I say goodbye to hostile, argumentative & controlling relationships.....they are toxic!!!
Bye for now.
Chris